Close your eyes for a moment.
Think back to the day you signed up for this race — or the moment you committed to whatever big goal you’re chasing right now. What did that feel like? Were you nervous? Excited? Did a little voice in the back of your head whisper, can I actually do this? Were you inspired by someone who had done it before you?
Now picture yourself at the start line. Maybe you feel those familiar pre-race jitters. You’re surrounded by tens, hundreds, thousands of people who share your exact same goal — to cross that finish line at Canal Park and celebrate every hard mile it took just to get here.
The gun goes off. Your heart races. You start moving. And in that moment, something shifts.
You made a choice to be here. And you will keep making that choice — mile after mile — until it’s done.
The Body Keeps Score. So Does the Mind.
As an acupuncturist for endurance athletes, I spend my days working with the relationship between the body and the mind. In Chinese medicine, we don’t separate them — they are one system, constantly in conversation. What you think, your body feels. What your body feels, your mind interprets. The two are inseparable.
Endurance running makes this truth impossible to ignore.
Around mile 18 of a marathon, your legs aren’t the only thing that gets tired. Your mind does too. And the athletes who cross the finish line aren’t always the ones with the strongest legs — they’re the ones who have trained their minds just as hard as their bodies.
That’s what I want to talk about today: mindset for the long run. Not just race day, but the entire journey that brought you here — including the training you’re doing right now.
You Have to Choose It, Every Single Mile
Here’s something I want you to sit with: you make a choice every mile to keep going.
If you’re in the thick of training right now — logging long runs in the cold, fighting early alarms, showing up on tired legs — you already know this feeling. There are days when the last thing you want to do is lace up. Days when the miles feel harder than they should, when motivation is nowhere to be found. And yet, you go anyway.
That’s not nothing. That is the training.
The mental reps you’re putting in right now — the choosing, the pushing through, the refusing to quit — are just as important as the miles on your watch. Every time you show up when it’s hard, you’re teaching your mind that it’s capable of more than it thinks. You’re building something that no training plan can prescribe.
The race is just an extension of what you’re already doing. It will get hard. I want you to expect that — not fear it. When it does, I want you to remember the feeling you had the moment you signed up. Bottle that feeling up. That belief you had in yourself in that moment? It’s still true. It hasn’t expired. Carry it with you.
The Race Is Won in Training
Race day gets all the glory. But the real work — the mental work — happens in the months before.
Your long runs are not just fitness tests. They are rehearsals. Use them intentionally. Practice your mantras when things get uncomfortable. Try dedicating a hard mile to someone you love. Notice what your mind does when your body wants to stop, and practice responding differently. By the time you reach the start line in Two Harbors, none of this will be new. It will be automatic.
This is also the time to be intentional about what you’re surrounding yourself with. The podcasts you’re listening to on your long runs, the books on your nightstand, the people you’re training alongside — all of it shapes your mental state heading into race day. Energy is contagious. Doubt is contagious. But so is belief. Choose accordingly.
Nike Running’s Coach Bennett says it simply: “You have to love what you do to be great at it.” Running wants you to be happy. What do you want from it?
What Are You Feeding Your Mind?
We talk a lot about race-week nutrition — what you’re eating, when you’re hydrating, how you’re fueling. But I want to ask you: what are you feeding your mind?
Be as intentional about your mental diet as your physical one. This matters during training just as much as it does in the final days before the race. Fill your mind with things that remind you what you’re capable of. And on the days when you can’t find it in yourself — borrow belief from someone else until your own comes back.
The Power of Your Words
In my practice, I talk to patients about the energetic weight of language. Words carry vibrations — and your body responds to them whether you’re speaking out loud or just thinking them.
Try this: say the word weak out loud. Or hurt. Notice what happens in your body. There’s a subtle contraction, isn’t there? A bracing.
Now try: strong. capable. I was made for this.
Feel the difference?
This is why mantras matter. Not as empty cheerleading, but as deliberate reprogramming. I keep a running notes page on my phone — just phrases and words that anchor me when things get hard. My mom keeps a journal. Whatever works for you — write a few down now, before race day. Practice them on your training runs so they’re already grooved in when you need them most. Know what you’re going to say to yourself at mile 20 before you get there.
Ask yourself right now: how do I want to feel during this race? Get specific. Visualize it. And when things get hard, return to that.
When It Gets Hard (And It Will)
Whether you’re on a long training run in April or somewhere in the middle miles on race day, the hard moments will come. Here are a few things that have helped me and the athletes I work with:
- Dedicate a mile to someone else. Pick someone you love, someone who is struggling, someone who would give anything to be doing what you’re doing right now. Run that mile for them. You’ll be surprised what your body can do when it’s not running for itself.
- Look around you. In training, that might mean remembering the community of runners out there doing the same hard work you are. On race day, you’ll be surrounded by thousands of them. Let that be fuel.
- Fall in love with the pain. I know that sounds extreme — but there is something profound about choosing discomfort. It means you are growing. It means you are alive and doing something extraordinary that most people will never do. (And as always, know
the difference between discomfort that builds you and signals your body actually needs you to stop — extreme heat, cold, or injury are a different conversation.) • Remember your why. Not a vague “I want to get fit” why. Your real why. The one that made your eyes sting a little when you thought about it.
This Race Is Not Your Finish Line
As you cross that finish line — flooded with relief, joy, pride — I want you to hold that feeling. Memorize it. Because here is the truth I want to leave you with:
This race is not your end goal. It is a stepping stone into the rest of your life.
The finish line is the cherry on top of the journey that got you here. The real transformation already happened — in the early mornings, the long runs, the days you chose to show up when you didn’t want to.
You are different because of this process. Not just as a runner. As a person.
So go run your race. Choose it, mile after mile. And when you cross that finish line, know that you didn’t just complete a marathon.
You proved something to yourself that no one can ever take away.
And always remember that we GET to do this ��
Written by Kailee Carlson, DCM, LAc, RN of Dr. Kailee Acupuncture – Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine based in Minneapolis, MN and cohost of the We Get 2 Do This podcast, a health and mindset podcast for building resilience in your body, mind, and life.
Dr. Kailee supports endurance athletes with acupuncture, dry needling, cupping, herbal and nutrition guidance, and recovery coaching.
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Favorite Grandma’s Marathon Memory: Grandma’s 2012! My first marathon with my mom, right after high school. Longest training run? 8 miles. Fueling plan? Nonexistent. What got me through? Pure hope, excitement, vibes from everyone cheering, and my mom’s encouragement. This race was a catalyst into making me the runner I am today and a reminder that I can do anything I set my mind to!
Quote that guides, inspires, or embodies your training, racing, or life:
“We GET 2 do this.” It inspired the name of my podcast with my fiance, Jacob Oak, and is a reminder I carry with me in running and in life—that movement is a privilege, and even on the hard days, I choose to show up with gratitude.
Three words to describe your training, racing, or life: Grateful. Resilient. Consistent.
Favorite post-race beverage:
An iced caramel or honey lavender latte with light ice!
Song that must be on your running playlist: Year 3000 by the Jonas Brothers—this song holds so many great memories and is the one we blasted and danced to during the final lap of my 200-miler. Something I will never forget!














































